5 WAYS TO BE A BETTER YOU

This blog post started as a personal project. I was writing down ideas on how I can improve myself, when I thought – why not share some of these thoughts with you? I picked some that I think are relevant to everyone and I do hope I’ve inspired you to invest more time and effort into becoming who you want to become.

  1. Read Read Read

I’m a big fan of personal development books. I find them extremely motivating and that is, if you read something that resonates with you. To give you an example – last year I was suffering from depression and had no clue about it. I just had no idea that’s what I was experiencing. And then I heard of this book, started reading it and it all made sense. I was a completely different person the next day. Not because my depression disappeared, but because I finally understood myself better. Sometimes we need to make more sense of what’s happening to us and our thoughts and feelings. And a good book will always help. If you start reading a book and you don’t feel anything after a while, maybe it’s not the right one for you. But keep on looking and the right one will completely change your mindset!

  1. Find Your Tribe

When we’ve got jobs, and a great family and a lovely group of friends, we forget to socialise outside of our comfort zone. If you want to grow, try and make an effort to meet people from the same industry, people that are amazing at something you aspire to be. Knowing someone that’s already there, will inspire you so much you have no idea. And you don’t necessarily have to meet everyone for a drink, don’t be afraid to message people on social media. Don’t be afraid to start a conversation with some of your idols – you never know who will reply!

  1. Turn off your phone

I cannot stress this enough.. I don’t know about you, but all this constant noise is becoming extremely exhausting. Messages, Emails, Watsapp, Notifications.. it never stops! I personally have stopped all social media notifications. I also turn off my internet in the evening and only have it up the next day. I don’t want my life to be run by my mobile, I’d rather choose how and when I want to check my work emails, procrastinate online or anything in between. There’s no need for extra stress, we’ve already got enough on our mind.

  1. Talk more about Money

 I’ve always loved talking about money, I’ve always said I want to have a lot of money and I don’t understand those who despise talking about this matter. Having and understanding how money works gives you more freedom, more opportunities to spend your time and energy on things that you like rather than worrying on how you’re going to pay your bills. I personally meet so many people that suck at managing their finances. And instead of reading into it and improving their situation, they prefer to say money’s cursed and let it be. You can’t let money run your life. So if you wanna become better at budgeting, having savings, going on holidays, buying a house – then talk more about money and don’t be ashamed about it.

  1. Keep a Gratitude Journal

I’ve mentioned this a couple of years back, but this is such a life changer. I call it therapy, because that’s what it does long term. So what does this mean? It means writing down every day 5 things you’re grateful for (on that day). What this does is make you focus on the positive things, gives you hope and the right mindset to tackle your challenges. Nobody’s life is perfect, but focusing on the good things will always make you stronger. Good things come for those you wait, or those who can see the good things coming.

What are your thoughts on the above? What are some things you think are worth adding to this list?

In this blog post I’m wearing one of the prettiest dresses I have at the moment. You can buy it directly from here. I would advise going a size up if you have a bigger chest. Even if it comes a bit loose around the waist, you can tie it in the back and it’ll look perfect. The dress was a gift from NA-KD , I wanted to feature some of their pieces as it’s currently one of my favourite high street brands. They’re also running a 70% off promotion available here. 

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It’s time for a new journey

lake district road trip

While many people argue that New Year resolutions don’t work, I still like to write down new goals for each year. Why? Because a new year/a new era/ a new episode/a new everything in my life gets me excited. And I love having yet another reason to get motivated, to want to achieve more. Why not? What’s so bad in writing down things you want to do this year? Who cares how much you’ll actually do or not, at least you’re willing to wish for it and commit to it even if it’s just for January. At least you had a pretty good January!

You see, I am a goal oriented person in general and I have my own journal, I have a huge stash of personal growth books, I always analyse where I’m at and where I wanna be and I always need to feel I’ve progressed or grown somehow. If I don’t, I get upset, very upset.

But I know that not everyone is the same (or as obsessed). And that’s why it’s even more important to get a chance to write down your personal goals. And really believe in them. Don’t read any of that bullshit that tries to convince you that you’re one of the quitters, or that New Year’s resolutions don’t work. You do your own thing and try your best. Because the more we want, the more we’ll get. And no matter how juicy it sounds, there’s nothing to loose, but to gain. So join me on this new journey, and let’s make the most out of 2017!

mountain outfit

In the morning of 1st of January we went on a road trip in the Lake District, where we got the chance to take these photos. You don’t get to have a clear blue ski in the UK, so yes, we started 2017 pretty well 🙂

mountain trip yellow
hunter boots

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mountain outfit gear
2017 resolutions

Raincoat – Primark Men | Knit top – Zara | Thermal Leggings – Unbranded | Boots – Hunter

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